Hey, you know, you are meant for more. You are definitely meant for more. And I get it. You may be sitting there and having this idea that, Yeah, it would be nice if I could do this in my life. It would be great if this possibility was available to me. You may feel it out. You may feel insecurity.
You may feel that. Who am I to think that I should do something else with my life when everybody else and the list goes on? I get it. I get it. I know where you’re at. And I don’t necessarily know you personally, but I know that place. And I know so many people who have been in that place of there is a yearning inside.
Right. There is this urge to do something. But then we talk it down. We go like, no. Yeah, well, no, you know, it’s just it’s just this thing, but it’s not that important. And. Da da da da. On and on it goes. And then a year goes by and it goes by. Ultimately, a life goes by. And I know, I know.
I’m not very uplifting to listen to right now, but that’s what happens. That’s what happens to life, to people. They go through life. And we have all these ideas. We have all these passions. We have all these things we can bring to the world or to ourselves or to our loved ones or to our business or workplace or wherever it may be, but it doesn’t get out of us.
And when I say that you’re meant for more, it may be that you hear that like in a material sense, and that’s very welcome. Material stuff is nice, but I’m more actually talking into the personal side of it that there is another level of emotion. There are relations that can be deeper. There are maybe the search of meaning or purpose in life, like what’s your life about?
Right? So I’m very much, as you probably know, into the the inner workings of of of the human being. That’s my life’s work. That is to, you know, support and inspire people to go for those things and to follow those passions we have inside to really act on the things that mean something to us. And and if you don’t know what means something to you, come and ask for my help and I’ll try.
I’ll just not just try. I will help you find that within your emotional realm and within the person you are. But it’s not to talk about me and what I can do or anything. But listen, a large part of the human experience, I believe, is growth is expansion. It’s the the experience that we become more. And that experience builds on the foundation of that.
We look at our lives and we see, hey, this thing is great, this thing is great, this thing is great, or maybe this thing is crappy, this area is crappy. This stuff over here is crappy. No matter what the starting point that you find those places, right? And say, Hey, look, I’ve got this intimate relationship and I want to make it better.
What do you need to make it better? You need to expand your self, your sense of your self. You need to expand your sense of what a relationship can be. You need to expand your vulnerability, your communication. You may need to learn skills, but first and foremost, it’s like a decision that what I feel, what you feel in your heart is important to you.
What is meaningful to you that you decide to prioritize that, to give it energy, to invest in it, to go with it, to to do something with that. So whenever the next month or the next year or the next two years have gone by, you can look yourself in the mirror and you can say, Hey, I did it.
I grew, I evolve. I became more my skill level has become higher, whatever. Wherever that area in your life is. But look, I want to challenge you because challenge is the fuel of life. You’ve had challenges. You challenges in your life that you have overcome. Despite all odds, it may have looked like how? What am I going to go with this?
But you figure it away because maybe it was important to you. Maybe it was important to your kids, maybe it was important to something else that’s important in your life. Make this pursuit, this journey important. Right? Make it important. Decide that this area of your life is so sufficiently important that you’re going to pursue that right and go for it up, level the skill and evolve and expand your own limits.
Right? So that whatever it may be, some say it can be relations, it can be your own emotional inner freedom, it can be your material side of life, It can be all kinds of things. Maybe you have a business idea. Maybe you have an invention that could better the life of one person or thousands of millions, whatever the case may be.
If it’s important to you, make it important in your life instead of just going, Yeah, well, you know, time never really showed up for that. And there were all these other things and I had to watch the TV and but right now you’re watching me. I but really don’t do those excuses because one day and that is my greatest fear.
One day this thing called life is going to be over. And I’m I’m horribly frightened by this idea that I’ll sit at that day and look back and regret. Right. That fear of regret that to me, that would be the most horrible thing that I look back on my life. And I went, Hey, I could have done this.
I could have expanded this, I could have learned this, I could have given this, I could have contributed this. I could have deepened this relationship. I could have loved more. But I didn’t because I didn’t have time, because I didn’t have the guts. Because whatever the excuse might be, that is one of my greatest fears in life. And it took me a long time to to realize that and allow myself to actually feel that.
But it is a fuel to me. It’s a fuel the challenge to really take what’s important to you and make it important in your life that challenge will fuel you forwards. And yes, you’re going to meet inner resistance. You’re going to meet other people who are resistant, who don’t appreciate whatever your journey may be. You made plenty of resistance, but you know, that’s what makes us strong.
That’s part of what makes us strong, because I believe I’ve been guilty of that. I believe that we can sit by our desk and we can think all these plans. We can read the books about relationships or entrepreneurship or adventure or whatever we read, and we think, Yeah, that’s really cool. Those people are cool. I want to do that.
And we decide all these things and we make the plans and we understand how we need to be vulnerable and authentic and communicate and all that. But the thing is that when we start doing those things, that’s where the real growth happens. Because when we start to say to somebody else, Look, I have this idea, it’s burning inside of me, I want to pursue it.
And people look at us and they go like, What are you talking about? That’s really weird, right? That is where our strength has to stand. It’s test the test of life, because. Are you really serious about what you’re talking about? That it’s important? Or when life is bringing resistance to that movement or to that path, that journey, are you going to stop?
That’s exactly That is the moment. That is the moment where the growth happens because learning and leveling is nice. But when we stand up for ourselves and say, Yes, I get it, you don’t agree with me, it’s important to me, I want to do this. And I’d love it if you’d come with me along on this journey. Right?
That is where we are challenged by life. When obstacle occur, when we get off track, when we get sidetracked, when when we burn out. And we got to pick ourselves up again. When we do all these things and it doesn’t work and we fall down and we race again, you know, that’s the hero’s journey, right? And that is the pride, that inner pride you will get when you have done your pursuit of what was important to you.
And it may be a smaller thing in your life. It may be a huge thing where you turn your life upside down. That’s not really, to me, the important part. It’s important to you because you go where the important things are for you. But this whole hopefully inspirational talk for me is really about you are meant for more, whatever that more may be, but that is the human journey.
That’s the path through life that we expand. Because if we don’t do that, our bodies are going to react to it of you. And you have seen horrible examples out there because the body, when we stop growing, evolving the body will wither away, become small, weak, fragile, low energy. And people, they always say, Yeah, but that’s just h no, it’s not just H Yeah, people can become very old and the body will experience that.
But we see people who are not that old, who experience that I’ve met thousands of people and I’ve seen this pattern so often when the mind, when the spirit, when, when, when the soul inside is limited and held back, as I said, one or two things, one of two things happen. The body becomes weak and fragile, withers away, or it becomes so tense, it becomes like a cage and the prison.
Everything tenses up and people walk around like this and don’t understand why they’re scared and why they don’t want to do new stuff. Because the body has become, as it always is, a mirror. But here it has become a mirror of a trapped mind, of a trapped spirit. Don’t go there, please. I ask of you. Please find that however big or small it may be, it doesn’t matter.
The size of the change doesn’t matter as long as it matters. Whatever you do, as long as it matters, It’s not important if it’s big or small, because then it speaks to you. It’s important. So I hope you can hear the sincerity in my voice. This is something that has been limiting my life for a long time before I figured it out.
And I’d love for you to expand your life, expand yourself, and hopefully get yourself on that path, which will lead you to a life of even more joy, even more happiness, even more love, even more meaning, purpose and fulfillment. Ultimately.
