Embracing Your Dreams
About your dreams. Have you ever experienced having this dream or a vision or greater wish for your life? And then heard yourself go, “nah.” Well, it’s not that important. It doesn’t matter that much. And stuff like that. This is where you’re mistaken, my friend. I’m going to talk a little bit about why. And I’m going to talk about what is holding us back, in relation to these dreams we have.
But first of all, I want to just say a few words about what are dreams, really? Because, you know, there are different levels of those. And just sort of to set up a frame around this topic, I’m going to talk about, you know, we have these ideas that, yeah, it would be nice to win the lotto or something, which is.
The Dreams Close to Our Hearts
Yeah, well, if it doesn’t happen, it’s just what it is. But the thing I’m going to talk about here are the dreams that are closely or closely connected to our hearts, to our spirit, to our personality. The dreams that really matter to you, the dreams that are an expression of who you are, right or might be if they become real.
So it’s not like just all the things that we are looking out the window and we’re going, yeah, well, I would rather be on the beach or something. Those are nice things and they’re important, but I’m talking in the greater scheme of things. So these are the dreams and visions, the ideas that matter to you, where when you talk about them, when you think about them, you can feel it.
Your Unique Aspirations
You can feel that, oh, there is something inside that really wants to make this real, on a different level than going to the beach or winning the lotto. And one of the things about this is that, you know, we are different, everybody is different, and we all have different voices inside of us. We have different ideas, we have different aspirations, visions, dreams.
And the ones you have are uniquely yours. And you might say, yeah, but, you know, so many people are doing these things that I’m thinking about already. But you have your unique perspectives. You have your unique personality, you have your unique story. Walk through life. So the things that you are dreaming of are unique to you. So don’t fall into that trap that yeah, everybody is doing the same thing.
Really acknowledge. It’s the fact that when you have the dream, when you have the idea, you have a combination of personality and talents that will make you able to create it. In reality, you may not have all the skills or the experience that is needed to create it, but you have the ability to obtain those skills, right? I really very firmly believe in that.
And when I work with people, I see it all the time. People like, yeah, but you know, I can’t. But when we get into the matter of things, it becomes very obvious that the unique dreams that somebody has, those dreams are rooted in a possibility within that person. So really take care of that. And be aware of that.
The Impact on Self-Esteem
That those dreams you have, they are yours and they are there because you have qualities within you that will be able to enable those dreams to become reality, right? The next thing is that these things are so closely related to your self-esteem, right? Because whenever you have this idea within that you would like to pursue or that’s important to you and you go, yeah, well, I’d like this, but, you know, it’s not really that important.
And, it’s I’m probably not good at it. Whatever the case may be, you’re actually undermining your own self-esteem. Whenever something is important to us humans and we sort of underestimate the significance or we just shove it aside, we tell ourselves that we are not important. So by not pursuing your dream idea, you’re actually telling your subconscious that you’re not that important, which is not very good for self-esteem.
Because whenever you have this idea within that you would like to pursue or that’s important to you and you go, yeah, well, I’d like this, but, you know, it’s not really that important. And it’s probably not something I’m good at. Whatever the case may be, you’re actually undermining your own self-esteem. Whenever something is important to us and we underestimate its significance or shove it aside, we’re telling ourselves that we are not important. By not pursuing your dream idea, you’re telling your subconscious that you’re not that important, which is not good for self-esteem.
Unlocking Growth and Personal Development
So be very careful with that. The next thing is that pursuing our dreams, ideas, goals, or visions is one of the best ways for us as humans to grow and evolve. Think about intimate relationships and their potential for growth. But pursuing dreams and visions is a close second. Often, they require us to step out of our comfort zone, to become more and to expand as human beings. We need to learn new skills and perhaps challenge ourselves in new ways, like speaking to a camera. These steps promote growth, which is crucial because it’s not just about achieving a dream. It’s about the journey—the self-esteem, the growth, the skills, the knowledge about ourselves and life that we gain along the way.
Confronting the Fear of Disappointment
And then there’s the fear part. One common fear is the fear of disappointment. It’s a strange concept when you think about it. You’re at a certain level in your life, and you have a dream that’s higher. Some people worry that if they aim for it and fall short, they’ll be disappointed. But consider this—if you don’t try, you stay where you are. If you reach even a quarter of the way toward your dream, you’re still further along than when you started. So the fear of disappointment is an illusion we impose on ourselves. It’s better to try and not make it all the way than to never try and miss out on the growth and joy that comes with pursuing a dream.
Embracing Uncertainty and Seeking Significance
Let’s talk about certainty and significance. These are two fundamental emotional needs within us. Pursuing a dream brings uncertainty. You can’t know for sure if you’ll succeed, and that can be frightening. But awareness of this fear, like knowing the size of a dragon you have to fight, is crucial. The need for certainty is the inner dragon in personal development. Recognize when this need is holding you back. Similarly, with significance
, we need to feel important and valued by those around us. When you set out on a new journey, there may be people who question your choices, casting doubt on your significance. It’s essential to find the strength within to pursue your goals regardless of others’ opinions. This journey is part of your spirit and contributes to your sense of self.
Nurturing the Human Spirit
The dreams you chase are tied to your spirit. They bring life and energy to all aspects of your being. This transformation doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a pursuit that can span months, years, or even decades. Some may never reach their full potential, letting their spirit shrink. Choose not to be one of them. My work—and this discussion—is rooted in the fear of looking back on a life of missed opportunities. That fear can chill you to the core. So let your spirit flow, let it blossom, and give it the expression it deserves.
This is a snapshot of my thoughts on the importance of dreams and the various factors that might hold you back. While this isn’t exhaustive, it touches on some key elements surrounding the significance of your dreams and visions.
In Closing: A Call to Intentional Living
With that, I encourage you to consider what one thing you can do today to move closer to an intentional life. A life where every day is lived with purpose, steering towards the dreams that make you come alive. I hope these insights serve you well. Remember, the steps towards your dreams are not just about the destination but about who you become along the way.
